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Alejos babies. I I wanna say the baby's here already.
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So Alejos, I saw the this is not Isabella,
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by the way, his baby is a fake baby,
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fake baby. Alejo is not here to be with his baby
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Alejo is one of the kind of guys that he's like always
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active on social media.
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He's been awfully quiet lately,
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which kind of leads us to suspect that baby Izzy is here
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And we couldn't be more excited.
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So since we know that being a parent,
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it's hard. I don't know how people are our age
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are doing it or how our parents did it.
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I feel like there's just so much that I'm doing now that
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And then I can only imagine adding a like a kid to
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the equation. It's a lot.
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I admire parents big time.
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I'm at thea by association and I feel like that's enough for
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Let's play around. I won't change your diaper,
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but I'll give you back to your mom for like the hard
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stuff you're gonna start crying.
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Here you go. Time for mommy.
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That's the beauty of being.
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I feel like millennial dads and the way that they're raising their
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Children are just much more present and so different than,
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you know, joining us to talk about fatherhood is Rafael Gomez
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How you doing? Good.
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there's a recent study by the Pew Research Center that found that
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what exactly what we were just talking about.
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Millennial dads are spending up to three times more time with their
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family, with their Children than previous generations.
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Would you say that this is true?
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Like, do you spend more time with your kids at home
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than your dad did with you?
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Oh Yes, I spend like pretty much all day with like
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my kid and my all the time,
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especially now that I'm doing like a content like videos like that's
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like my job, social media,
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I'm able to be here like 24 7.
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So it's like, it's amazing what a blessing to be able
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to 24 7. What would you say you are most afraid
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of fucking up when it comes to like your kids?
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I would say the main thing would probably be like not
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being able to provide like I'm doing good right now,
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but like not being able to provide would be one of the
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things for sure. Do you feel like that pushes you to
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kind of like, do more like that's your incentive is like
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your kids and being able to provide for your family and stuff
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And like, my wife's good about it because she's been
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through it. So she's like,
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just showing me teaching me everything that's good.
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it takes a team for sure to have each other's support.
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What would you say is one thing that you weren't warned about
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the biggest challenge being like the bad guy,
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I guess you could say because you kind of have to be
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that guy in order to set the rules and stuff like that
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because you want to have a good relationship at the same time
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You gotta be like a parent,
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you know that Los Ojos,
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it's like, how do you stay ahead of your partner's needs
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Tambien because like, I mean,
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it's a family, right?
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the dad and the mom,
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you kind of have to work together and everything.
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How do you make sure that like you and your partner are
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both, like, supporting each other as well?
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Well, sometimes we'll even have like our,
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like our date nights.
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So we'll, I'll spend time with my wife specifically and then
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we'll have like family time where we travel together and then we
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just try to find a good routine to where like,
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we're all like spending time together and making sure that everybody gets
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like time alone with one another.
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Yeah. Very rewarding your own little units.
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Your little, you know,
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congratulations again. So excited for the new addition to your family
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and where can people find you before we head out?
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Oh, it's just Rafael Gomez 15 pretty much everywhere.
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Just Rafael Gomez. Awesome.
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Thank you again. Thank you,
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Rafael, dude. That was crazy.
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Thank you. Go back to your mom like just for a
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little bit, you know,
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and then we gotta get,
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