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Babies with Earrings

May 1, 2024
We asked new mom Sharlotte Gonzalez why she decided to pierce her baby girl’s ears. Plus, how to (not) shave your baby’s head.
Show transcript
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OK. Daniela. Did you get your head shaved as a
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baby? I did not,
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you did not. What about your ears pierced?
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Once you get that?
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I did, I was three months old in Colombia when I
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got my ears pierced.
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That is usually what happens if you're Latino or,
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you know, it's part of the tradition getting your baby's ears
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pierced and,,
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shaving your head as a baby.
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And I have my best friend who just became a new mom
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and she's no stranger to people's unsolicited advice about what she should
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be doing when she should be doing them and the traditions that
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we have.,
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so we are going to introduce her Charlotte Gonzalez and that's baby
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Aora right there. Hi,
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a Laura. She's a little busy.
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Ok. So Charlotte,
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tell us when it came to getting your baby's ears pierced.
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What was the story behind it?
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I personally didn't really mind not piercing her ears because to me
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it wasn't really important.
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I was just mainly more focused on the fact of being a
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new mom, you know,
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trying to keep her alive.
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But that was, but,
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you know, outsiders and I guess it's a cultural thing.
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I'm not really,,
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a cultural person, you know.
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my mom was the one who pushed me to pierce
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her ears. My husband is Mexican.
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So a lot of his side of the family would always ask
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me, when are you gonna pierce your ears?
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When are you gonna pierce your ears?
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And I'm just like,
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you know, I'm not worried about piercing her ears but did
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it just so that I can get those people to keep them
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out shut? Ok.
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So what about other baby traditions that maybe people have pressured you
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to buy into? Are there any,
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how about maybe shaving the baby's hair?
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It's funny. I've only heard that through,
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through me. I am that person.
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Ok. Ok. Let me clear the air.
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She's always like when you shave your head and I'm like,
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oh, ok. I kinda told her the story about my
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mom because here's the thing,
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my mom believed that once you shave the head,
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it grows nice and healthy,
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but I do it and mess around with her.
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Yeah, me, I'm like,
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no, her hair will grow out when it's going to grow
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out. So it's ok.
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I'm not worried about that.
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Yeah, that's true.
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Also the whole like red bracelet,
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what is, what is the red bracelet?
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So apparently the red bracelet is supposed to,
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they call it the Ma Ojo like an evil eye
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type of protector from the.
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Ok. I think I'm familiar with this.
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One. Yes, I understand.
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It's a cultural thing.
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But I didn't grow up with that.
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And that's something I've learned,
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like, marrying into a Mexican family.
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Like, they're very,
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you know, they believe in a lot of things.
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And I'm just, like,
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well, I didn't grow up with that so I don't really
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feel like my, I don't know.
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It, it, it's just a whole,
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yeah, it's very controversial.
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Yeah. Like I said,
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II, I grew a Christian and I'm a Christian and I
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believe that you know,
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God is protecting her and I don't need a bracelet to do
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that for her to say mind your damn business.
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This is my baby girl and she does.
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She has Yeah. Well,
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Charlotte, thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your
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story. I know your hands are full clearly.
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I'll let you go and attend to her.
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She's she's so cute.
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Yes, I'll see you later.
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Thank you so much.
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Say bye to baby A LAA.
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Thanks for having me guys.
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Oh my God. I am so cute.
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Adorable. Actually our very own Alejandro got his head shaved as
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a baby. Yeah,
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we actually have a picture.
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Oh, that's a clean cut.
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All that is a shave,
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shave hair, no hair.
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You know my mom does hair and I don't think it's that
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easy to shave. Like do you use eraser or do you
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use? I feel like I could shave a baby's head and
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it would look perfect.
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Really? Yeah. All right.
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Well, let's find out.
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000000, you got it.
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All right. This is,
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this is my baby,
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my child and we're gonna,
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we need shaving cream,
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the razor and then to put the leftover stuff,
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you know, since you're,
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I'm no expert but I kind of am.
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So we're just gonna,
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actually, I'll give you a face because this face card is
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very important. Ok?
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We're gonna give him a little face so you can put shaving
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cream on a baby's head.
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Yes. What if it has long?
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You think about that?
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What if it has long hair?
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So we're gonna start,
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we're gonna do like a nice hairline.
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I'm gonna, I think,
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I think you if the hair goes a certain direction you have
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to go the opposite but I would be so afraid if a
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baby doing that to a baby.
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Oh wait, I think it's almost shading his eyelashes.
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I will cut the the little locks he's about to have for
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him. It's so easy.
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You're right. I can do this.
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Oh my God. There goes the eye.
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Oh Wait, you gotta use the water,
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the water. You're right.
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Like I never like I'm forgetting what's going on so I get
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laser hair removal. Oh OK.
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You've upgraded. I did.
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Yeah, I don't know if I,
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I would rather go to a professional.
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I I'd say yes but I want my baby to have character
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like I want it.
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So, like I have a struggle early on.
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Well, no, that's a little aggressive for a baby.
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Yeah, this looks like it's,
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pretty good.
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Yeah. Even doing it,
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it's, is the head getting smaller.
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It's, it's going down,
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it's for sure.,
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the baby is in the hospital,
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the baby is gone.